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This is such a good read. I’m trying to get a grip on my drinking, and I absolutely glamorise the heavy times. I’m going to use this piece as a reminder of the truth. I’ll subscribe as well. TTFN

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Good man. Good luck. x

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Hi Sam,

I'm currently three weeks sober and have been going through very similar addiction issues as yourself over the last few years. Listening to your stories on TFTM and The Reset inspired me to finally divorce myself from the seemingly endless cycle of self destruction I was trapped in and get some help.

I just wanted to thank you for this email as it kept me from being a dickhead by needlessly buying more coke this afternoon.

Much appreciated,

TTFN

Dan

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I'm glad you're making a go of it mate and delighted that I have helped you. Don't buy coke. It's disgusting!

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Agreed! Thanks again mate.

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awesome read mate and I'm proud of you and am so happy how happy you have become since turning your mind around. Luff u Pauly D xxx

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You're the best mate. Loadsa love. x

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Being sober is definitely a key element in a happy family life. And yes, I too have on occasion taken a snapshot of being around my family and told myself to remember how content and loved I feel in that moment.

I recently went away with my childhood mates for our 50ths (last of the summer wine). They all drank, but no excessively and I found that being sober, I had so much more of a clear memory of events and all the funny stuff that happened wasn’t because of booze, it was just us reverting to being kids again!

Cheers Sam, keep em coming!

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brilliant. I love ti when you do things sober you used to always do pissed - and realise it's more fun!

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Jun 28, 2022·edited Jun 28, 2022

Hi Sam. Well done. Makes a lot of sense. Thanks for helping me get sober Sam. I’m seven months in and really get the family thing. I find I now sit back and enjoy their company rather than dominating the conversation while hammered. Can’t remember if it was yours or a guest words on sobriety but they have really stuck with me and helped, “free from the burden of being a tw@t”.

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5 months sober now.. just had a fibroscan to see if the damage is lasting on the 7th. Hopefully it's good news and I can live a sober life for many years to come. Congrats on your sobriety.. no matter who tells the story it inspires

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Wow, still to make that leap but this has definitely taken me closer. Deep breath and thanks Sam. You're a good man.

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Chuffed for you and your lovely family.

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Thanks Jacqui, as always. x

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